For the month of All Souls

While tears fall

Light reflects 

Forged in love,  hope and gratitude 

Shining on you 

As we remember 

News for Ace Week

Your humble blogger's Ace Week poem from last year made it to Sheauxtime Collective's upcoming short film, The Ace Files: Opening Act. Sheauxtime Collective is a platform for creative that highlights underrepresented voices. Check out their work here.

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Grief and Imagination

 It's funny how serendipity works. A post on X about an article on grief led to finding Nnenna Freelon's Great Grief podcast. A standout episode was this one, in which grief speaks for herself. For your humble blogger, the concept that particularly hit was that of imagination being the secret. "I'm not one to give advice", she says, "...but I will share this with you. Imagination...There's your secret." Grief, playing a teacher role for me right now, has shown me that imagination is an especially necessary tool in the kit to deal with her. When grief hits, it's not easy to see beyond sorrow. Imagination is definitely helpful when trying to put one foot in front of the other. Imagining (or at least trying to imagine) something beyond the pain of loss is important when dealing with death is essential or else you'll be stuck in the pain. 

How is imagination working for me now? It's seeing grief as the aforementioned teacher, or a wave to ride when it comes, like surfing. Sometimes, it's a moonlit river coaxing you along the path laid along it's banks. Many times, it's picturing yourself getting through each movement you have to make through the day. That's where your humble blogger is at right now.

Ode to JEH

 

I just saw a homily 

Where the deacon mentioned 

It is what you value that makes you rich.

If we're to go by that, you were the richest man on Earth.

Your heart was big as the ocean

and valued life, love, and everyone.

Fly high, dear crow.

Black Business Month Highlight-Denisio Truitt Atelier

It's Black Business Month and your humble blogger is all about supporting Black business. Right now, the love is going to Denisio Truitt Atelier. Denisio is an artist in every sense of the word and I'm proud to be a customer. My most recent purchase was the icy shoulder knit top and cowrie mini hoop earrings. The top is custom made (you have to submit your measurements when you check out on the website) and fits like a dream. The fabric is thick without being bulky. Put it it together with the earrings and you have the perfect look for a night out or just because. On top of that, the price point is out of this world-in the best of ways. Get thee to Denisio's website for some truly remarkable items for your wall and closet.

Back with another plant update

Your humble blogger is continuing with the plant journey. Ms. Owlivia, which I talked about here, bit the dust recently. Now I'm back with a new plant, which I dub Asia Pleshur. It's giving a lush vibe, and so I had to name her after my favorite singer's new album,  The Age of Pleasure, which has also been giving lush vibes. It's been serendipitous in that Asia is a ZZ plant, which is of Africa origin, and Janelle describes The Age of Pleasure as an ode to the diaspora. Interestingly, as of late, my mind has been trying to draw a deeper connection between the two- specifically, the fact that Asia's plant species is one that thrives in dry environments, and Janelle, in talking about the album, has mentioned the idea of choosing joy in the midst of heaviness. That's speaking a personal word to yours truly right now, as I'm still in a season where applying this to my life is crucial. Now to put these lessons into practice.

The Word for Right Now

It's honesty hour again. Unfortunately, your humble blogger has been dealing with a lot. One month ago today, the love of my life passed on. In the midst of it all, a thought came that felt necessary to share,  thanks to the inspiration of the Wondaland crew:

Blessings,

Msranadee