What's on MsRanaDee's mind at the moment

Salutations!!!

After a bit of a quandry as to what to post here for this month, it hit me:



LET THE EXCITEMENT BEGIN-NOW!!!

(Thanks to my Wondatwin Sareesha for bringing this to my attention)

On Greekdom, Service, and Growth

Today, a conversation with a co-worker, a member of a Black Greek-letter fraternity went to this affect after telling him tommorow marks my five years in Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority:

Co-worker: (Jokingly) "I don't even want to say how many years it's been for me-[He then goes to say the year he was initiated]-probably before you were even born"

Me: [Tells the year I was born]

Co-worker: "See"

Me: (Referring to the co-workers time as a fraternity member) "That's not old, that's growth"

This hasn't been the first time a member of a Black Greek-Letter organization (BGLO) has placed value to any length of time of active membership.  In a conversation with another BGLO member, the response to my mentioning being active in my sorority for five years was "So you've been in there a while".  Such comments led me to think about the underlying significance in continuous activity in a Black Greek-letter organization for me: continuous service and growth through self-giving. 

Andre McKenzie notes the in his essay In the Beginning, "...the BGLO movement has provided its members with the opportunity to experience the camaradere of brotherhood and sisterhood, service to others, and social and personal development".  This experience is lifelong, given BGLO affilliation "..has continued...through active participation in graduate chapters."  According to Tamara Brown, in her introduction to her book African American Fraternities and Sororities: The Legacy and the Vision (in  which McKenzie's essay is featured) service and growth was inherent in the purpose of forming such organzaitions. She contends they "began to take shape...as a means...to...create better men and women, and affect social change".  How does this happen? This is achieved through a self-giving love of one's neighbor.

Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI asserts in  God is Love that love is a "journey, an ongoing exodus out of the closed inward-looking self towards its liberation through self-giving, and thus towards authentic self-discovery"  Regarding BGLOs, Brown observes "the fraternal idea is best understood as tangible relationships" which is formed by the reconstruction of the self from an individual to the group. The aforementioned social and personal devlopment fostered through BGLO membership, then, can be seen as being rooted in non-selfish giving of oneself to fellow members and the community at large.  It can also be gleaned that such giving should be continuous.

Benedict XVI further notes in his aforementioned work that "love is never 'finished' and complete; throughout life, it changes and matures and thus remains faithful to itself".  In terms of BGLO emmbership, McKenzie assertion illustrates this, as noted above. Hence, service and growth has an important link to continuous membership in a BGLO.

In a nutshell, to serve one's fellow man is to grow as a person.  This is and has been at the heart of membership of a Black Greek-letter organization.  This has been especially true for your humble blogger.  To the BGLO founders and members that have come before, an insurmountable amount of gratitude and honor are owed to you. To the BGLO members of the present (special acknowledgement to my sorority sisters-you know who you are), this is a love letter to you.  Without you, my Greekdom would not be possible.

Sources:

Brown, Tamara, Parks, Gregory S., and Phillips, Clarendia M. African American Fraternities and Sororities: The Legacy and the Vision. (Lexington, Kentucky: University of Kentucky Press, 2005)

Pope Benedict XVI. God is Love. (San Fransisco: Ignatius Press, 2006).

Introducing Venerable Pierre Toussaint

In honor of Black History Month, your humble blogger would like to acquaint you with Pierre Toussaint, a Hatian-born slave who died free in New York City.  His life of service and faith lead Pope John Paul II to declare him Venerable, initating the process which may make Toussaint the first Black North American saint.  Here's a link to one the best descriptions of his story, written by Boniface Haney, O.F.M. and excerpted on Eternal Word Television Network's page.

http://www.ewtn.com/library/MARY/TOUSSAIN.htm

(Picture courtesy of The Archdiocese of New York's Office of Black Ministry Page)

On Character

A few days ago, yours truly read an article that used a word that seems to be rarely used these days-character.  What stood out was the fact that it was used in describing a person-namely their "growth in character".  How many times do we think about people in terms of their character or even what that term means to us?  As we honor the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King today, may we take special time to reflect on his dream of people being judged "on the content of their character" and how we can apply it to our own lives.

For Discussion

So-
The thought popped into my mind to start a conversation because sometimes there's nothing better than a healthy discussion on a good topic. In this case, it is based on a statement from an overheard commercial for the Michael Baisden show in which he touts the joys of being accepted the way you are.  That begged the question, in my mind, wouldn't one want people in their life that not only accepted them the way they were, but challenged them to become better?  What are your thoughts?

The Holiday season and additional musings on human connections

It's holiday time!!! That this can among the most (if not THE most) hectic times of year can pretty much be left unsaid. On top of that, the focus can easily become more on the gifts given than the moments spent with loved ones.  Here's some food for thought to keep in mind while hunting for gifts and visiting family over the next few days:

"The real basis for connection comes from the parts of us that we cannot measure or define".
-Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

The dollars spent on the gifts that you'll give and receive are nothing in comparison to the worth of the people behind them.

So, Um, Yeah...

Ok-yours truly usually tries her absolute best to post as much original content here as possible.  This month, it has been a bit of a struggle.  However, in attempts to figure out what to post for this month, I came across this gem to share with you all-

http://soundcloud.com/my-two-sense/your-emotions-twosdays

P.S. Do get familiar with George 2.0, the man behind  "Two's Days". Thank me later.